How to choose and hold a Pick

My pick seems to turn around in my hand, what is going on?
This is really common when you start out. If you try and hold the pick too hard then your arm will feel tense; if you hold it too loose, then it falls out or turns around. The solution is practice. Don't let it worry you in the early stages; it will simply take a while for your hand to deal with holding the pick with exactly the right amount of pressure.

What angle should the pick hit the strings?
When you are strumming with a light pick, the angle of picking is not too important. However, if you feel like your pick is getting stuck in the strings, it might be because you are angling the pick in such a way that it's getting caught up. To get it right: start by lining up the pick with the strings, and then turn it so that the pick is angled down just a bit, say 15 degrees. This way the pick will glide over the strings rather than getting caught up in them. If the pick is strumming flat (parallel) against the strings it often gets hooked into the strings and makes your rhythm playing kinda lumpy. So you need to keep the pick at an angle so it will move easily over the strings.

I sometimes find my 2nd finger holding the pick too: is that bad?
Yes it is. Try and hold the pick with just your thumb and 1st finger. Using other fingers will most likely put your wrist at a strange angle and cause problems when you try to develop your technique further.

That said, many great players use strange techniques and hold the pick funny, but what I always recommend is starting the ‘right' way and really giving it a good go before you decide it doesn't work for you. George Benson holds his pick kind of upside down; Brian May uses a coin and Jeff Beck gave up on using the pick altogether, so it really is your decision in the end.

Often, people who start out using a thicker pick try and use three fingers to hold onto it when they strum. A better solution is just to use a thinner pick and hold it the right way!

Using your 2nd finger to hold the pick will:

• Change the angle of your hand, and so change the angle that the pick hits the strings, in a bad way. 
• Change the angle of your palm, which makes it hard to do palm muting. 
• Make ‘hybrid' picking almost impossible, if you decide to get into that later. 
• Mean that you can't use your 2nd finger for tapping. 
• Hinder your ability to manipulate the pick.

I know the ‘right' way can feel really weird if you started using three fingers to hold the pick, but I really think it's worth trying to get back to holding it with just your thumb and 1st finger. It will take a bit of time to get used to how hard to hold it. Like everything else, it's gonna take some practice!

Do I need to hold it different when I strum?
Yes. When you pick out notes one at a time, you don't want too much pick poking out, but when you strum it's ok to have a lot more pick showing from out of your thumb. As you play more you will learn to manipulate how much of the pick sticks out while you play; this sounds hard but it will just happen naturally. Don't stress about it! It will happen when it's ready, and not a second earlier...

I like the "back in the old days" style, is it really bad to hold the pick at the knuckle?
Well, no—there are many great players that played that way—but there are issues with it. I recently taught a guy who showed up with blood all over his guitar because his knuckle was hitting the strings a lot. That's no good. It also makes it hard to use ‘circle' picking which is a more advanced technique you certainly won't be doing in the beginner's course, but is very useful later on when you want to start speeding things up a bit!

I like the Jazz III but they feel too small for strumming...
Then try the Jazz III XL, which is the same shape and thickness, but a bit bigger; lots of people like them.

When I do a lot of strumming (with a pick) the nail on my index finger gets worn down quite a lot, it's kind of towards the right side (or bottom as I'm playing). Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong?
That means you are letting your finger hit the strings when you strum. This is a very bad habit; you need to adjust your finger position on the pick and the angle of your hand as you are doing your down-strums. You would be better off trying to fix this now rather than later. Go back to doing it nice and slowly and make sure that is not happening. It's going to be a bit tough to make the change but it's definitely worth it.

If you don't stop it now it will affect your sound later, and you'll hurt your fingers if you practise a lot.